Social networking sites like Facebook and Myspace can really get on a wife's nerves! In the past, before social networking wives only had to deal with ex's calling, or showing up at places, the obvious stalking of our men. Now, we have the silent stalkers, that lurk through our social networking sites, leave comments on our pictures, general comments, and I miss you comment images.
My husband has one of his ex-girlfriends on his site that I am completely sick of! From the time we started dating two years ago she has left comments, on his site such as, "I miss you, we should fix that." graphics, and "Friends Forever" graphics with little hearts. I was mad and told him to remove these posts. I would post him something, she would post, every single day!!
In her defense, she is now married to a man she rebounded with after my husband dumped her. His name is the same as my husbands! She just likes to be friends with people so she says.. well she is friends with the women in his family and on their social networking sites.
My husband and I had a private wedding with just our parents, grandparents siblings at home. We receive a wedding card from this ex-girlfriend a few days later! Keep in mind, I've actually had words with her in the past....why would she send a card to us? My husband and I had our first child and she commented on all the pictures as well.
Just when you think it couldn't get more weird....his ex goes to a networking event that my best friend happens to be at. She spots my best friend (who by the way is not friends with my husband) approaches her and introduces herself as my husband's ex. Why? What is the point in doing that? Does this woman expect my friend to care? What does she gain by hunting my best friend out in a room of people to introduce herself as my husband's ex?
I emailed her for the second time, because the first time she said she wasn't going to leave my husband (then boyfriend) alone unless he told her too (and he did tell her)! This time I told her that she doesn't need to send us cards, and to stop approaching my friends, because she is not wanted in our life. It came to the point where my husband deleted her as a friend per my request... although he didn't feel she did anything wrong.
He never contacts her, if she didn't contact him, there would be no contact. Keep in mind that I do not feel any fear of him going to her in any romantic way. I just do not understand the point of that much involvement in our life from an ex, or any woman that isn't related to us. I think it is unnecessary. You broke up, move on, get over it. I personally do not need to be friends with women my husband had sex with, I have plenty of my own friends. Friends and family are people that should send us wedding cards, not ex-lovers!
I want our marriage ex free. Is that wrong? When do you think she crossed the line? Did she cross the line at all? Am I a reading to much into it? Do you think the door should be so open to ex's?
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